Posted in LiFe, Nursing School, organizing, Stress Prevention

Well… Graduation happened. I’ve definitely been feeling the post graduation anxiety👩🏼‍🎓😓

It feels so crazy that it finally happened!! but I did it. I graduated from nursing school. So, now I’ve started the next step, the NCLEX. I’ve started the application process and the studying process. I bought, downloaded, printed, and page protected a wonderful nurses study guide for the NCLEX:

I’ve also purchased UWorld for 60 days. My goal is to study and to take the NCLEX in a month and a half I have a busy summer with 6 total weddings, one being my own.

One thing at a time, the NCLEX is the next item on my list.

Let’s see how this goes…🤞🏻

Well, evidentially things in life change. I ended up not taking my NCLEX until September instead on in June. I was so stressed and so overwhelmed with trying to celebrate graduation, turning 30, and planning weddings. I burnt myself out trying to complete the 75 questions a day on top of all those things listed above, looking for nursing jobs, all while still working as a bartender.

I BEAT MYSELF UP!! I made myself feel awful for not taking my exam when I originally planned. All my friends were doing it so who couldn’t I?! What was wrong with me why didn’t I have a nursing job lined up right out of school, why couldn’t I complete all the questions from UWorld that I had planned on doing, why did I feel so far behind?

If you’re feeling like this…STOP IT!!!

I was so stuck in my head about all of the things I felt like I wasn’t doing, I completely neglected giving myself credit for all the things I had done. Such as, going back to college at a later age (which was terrifying) and graduating with my BSN which is said to be one of the most difficult under grad programs one can get. I was forgetting to celebrate and enjoy the planning of my own wedding and being thankful so many people wanted me to stand up with them at theirs. None of my nursing friends were experiencing the same events in their lives so how could I compare myself to them.

Unfortunately, that is easier said than done. And that is true about everything in life. I am awful about comparing myself to other people around me. I have to constantly remind myself that we are all our own people, going through our own issues and experiences. No two people are expected live their lives the same way. So why do we do it? Why do we make ourselves feel small or less capable compared to other people? Is it societal pressures, parental pressures, community pressures? I believe it’s all of those aspects, it’s all of the aspects that help shape us into the humans we are today and that’s why we compare, we care. I personally never want to let anyone down or want anyone to think less of me. However, I CAN ONLY BE THE PERSON I AM. I will only be able to do what I can.

One thing that helps me remember this is reminding myself,

I can’t give 100%, 100% of the time. It’s not realistically feasible.

If that is what is expected of my then those are unrealistic expectations. I write these words to remind myself and to hopefully help others that may be feeling the same way.

The pressures after graduation are no different than the pressures people feel on a daily basis. The pressure of “I’m supposed to have this all figured out,” unfortunately for those thoughts, the reality is no one has it all figured out at least not 100% of the time.

So, I remind myself and others feeling this way (as my husband continuously reminds me); take it day by day, do what you can each day and don’t expect yourself to do it all in that one day. As the very true and valid cliché says, “Rome was not built in a day.”

Therefore, today I took a little self care and hung out with my best friend while getting our nails done, I’m writing this blog posts to remind myself of the aspects above, I’m going to do some yoga because I can feel my body needs it, I’m going to go to work and do my best that I can despite the dreams I had last night of feeling overwhelmed and insufficient, and maybe tomorrow I’ll work more on nursing sheets. One day at a time.

Check out the nursing sheets that are completed, more to come.

I CAN DO THIS!

And so can others that may be feeling the same way.

You got this!

Posted in Nursing School, organizing, Stress Prevention

Holiday Stress Pick Me Up

We all know the holidays are stressful. We all know schools is stressful, especially nursing school. So, juggling the two together can be a bit overwhelming. Just like juggling work, family, and the holidays. No mater what the combination, the holidays add an additional stress on to our plate. If we let it. I know, so much easier said than done. I am completely guilty of thinking this as well. But, for someone like me who is obsessed with the holidays and everything having to do with the holidays, I don’t want to let anyone or any stress ruin that for me. The holidays are something I look forward to every year. Yes, they may be stressful, if that’s the mind set.

Unfortunately, society has created this chaos about the holidays. Many people, including myself have lost the truth behind the holidays. I’m realizing this at the beginning of the holidays and I plan on changing my perspective. The holidays are a time for believing and having faith. It’s about spending time with people that care about us that we love.

Let’s Make it to Break!

Alright, it’s finals time and holiday time. Talk about stress! Well, one thing at a time. I will be continuing to add onto this post as I get through finals and the holidays myself. In the mean time, I had a fellow student ask me about some of the pictures I sent her to remember HELLP for preeclampsia. So, I wanted to make this study tool is accessible to people that need it. I recently received a book I bought on Amazon and I think this is my new “study bible” if you know what I mean. It has everything I could think of to help me focus my studying.

Illustrated Study Guide for the NCLEX-RN Exam
An “Inside” Look

Made it Through the Semester!

Holiday time means holiday stress, am I right? NO! I am not right! Yes, the holiday’s CAN be stressful. however, they don’t HAVE to be. I’ll admit, there’s been times that I I’ve felt stressed out either about family drama, presents, traffic, or people’s attitudes. Then I have to do something to work through the stress so it doesn’t ruin my holiday spirit. I’ve been creating Mandala’s to put onto my blog to help other people who also need a little “alone” or “me time” (let’s be honest, we ALL need “alone” or “me time”) whether it’s the holidays or not.

Create Your Own Creation

De Stress with Yoga

Yoga for holiday relaxation! Let yourself have that time that is very much needed to recoup and recharge. There will be more relaxation tips to come throughout the holidays!

Posted in Nursing School, Stress Prevention, Wedding Planning

Feeling Disconnected?

Some times I feel as though I’m off balance or I feel like I’ve lost myself a little. It’s almost as though I’m standing over my own body because I feel so disconnected. This yoga video is quick reconnecter. A quick 12 minute video that truly helps you reconnect with yourself. Whether you’re feeling disconnected because of work, school, wedding planning or social life, just about anything; try this video to reconnect.